I offered a gentlemans challange and it was refused and thats fine thats the matter over and done with. i do not post as another person and i do not hold grudges if im insulted i get angry as does anyone but i forgive also might take me a couple of hours to relax but i belive in karma and i dont want bad karma to come back for no good reason so i let things go many years ago i used to hold on to anger .But after a couple of years of hell i ve learnt to forget about things that are nt important to me ,one thing i will say is that never have i tried to be someone else i ve no reason to ,make love not war recive head not lead .